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  • December 01, 2021 10:39 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

        The link between oral health and mental health is hard to ignore. Data from the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey showed that almost two-thirds of people with depression reported having a toothache in the last year. It also indicated that half of all people with depression rated their teeth condition as fair or poor. A scientific review of related studies found a strong link between periodontal (gum) disease and mood conditions like stress, anxiety, depression and loneliness.

        The most obvious explanation for the link comes from the behavioral effects of stress, depression and anxiety. People with these conditions sometimes lose focus on oral health habits, which can lead to significant dental issues. Depression, for example, can cause people to brush and floss at irregular intervals, skip dentist visits, have unhealthy diets and self-medicate with smoking.

        Biologically, depression and anxiety cause several factors that impact oral health. The stress they create manifests itself in the body as a hormone called cortisol. As cortisol levels increase, the immune system gets weaker. This can leave you vulnerable to mouth conditions like gum inflammation (gingivitis) and gum disease (periodontitis). In addition, medications prescribed for depression and anxiety can cause dry mouth. This lack of saliva can mean that food debris, plaque and bacteria aren’t getting rinsed from teeth easily, which can make it more likely for cavities to form.

        Anxiety, in particular, tends to be associated with several oral health issues. If you have anxiety, you're more susceptible to canker sores, dry mouth and teeth grinding (bruxism). As with depression, these issues may be attributed to a lack of oral care or as side effects of anxiety medication.

        Luckily, when depression or anxiety take a toll on oral health, there are ways to fight back. The simplest step you can take to maintain your oral health is to brush twice a day and floss daily. Keeping up these basic oral health habits goes a long way to keeping your mouth in tip-top shape. 

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  • November 24, 2021 8:26 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    Clients often ask me how they can add more joy and health into their personal lives when everything around them seems fragile and uncertain. In order to feel joy, you have to be open to it. Joy is only possible when we are fully present with a grateful perspective. In fact, numerous studies show that the practice of gratitude can give us an instant mood boost.

    Alternatively, if you are focusing on what is lacking, it’s hard to appreciate the gifts of daily life. We often get caught up ruminating on what we don’t have instead of savoring our present blessings.  What you focus on grows, so I advise my clients to zero in on things that nourish their souls, inspire them and lead them to a perspective of gratitude.

    In my gratitude seminars, a question I often ask the audience is: “What can you do today that is both joyful and healthy for your life?” Clients often report things like spending more quality time with their kids, or calling a friend they feel safe with and not judged.  These experiences brings them a great sense of joy and gratitude. In addition, spending more time in nature or going for a long walk with their pet also can shift their perspective towards the positive. 

    I invite you today to consider what you can do to add more joy and health to your daily life. The answer can be really simple and doable.

    A simple way to foster more gratitude is to be on the lookout for great things that come your way throughout your day no matter how small the gesture. Write down at least three positive things that occurred in your day in a gratitude journal. Studies show that if you keep a daily gratitude journal for at least a week you are likely to experience a mood boost for up to a month. In addition, if you continue this practice for a month or more, the positive effects of a gratitude journal may continue to be seen for up to six months after. According to researchers, the positive mood boost appears to compound.

    In my practice, clients often know what they need to do, but feel overwhelmed wondering how to make big changes that are necessary to improve their life and health. Small steps can make a profound difference. It is through self-awareness that you can start to improve your enjoyment of life. Starting a gratitude journal and practicing reflective journaling can help you come into awareness about the positive things that happen to you throughout your day. Furthermore, if you are struggling to digest difficult feelings, the act of writing the events on paper can help you synthesize the information and get it out of your system.

    Tips to keeping a Gratitude Journal:

    1. Keep it simple – if this is your first-time journaling, all you need is a pen and a notebook to keep all of your thoughts in one place. If you are feeling ambitious, you can buy a journal or notebook.
    2. Write the date, the time, and location – adding the date, time and location often adds context to your thoughts. Reflective journaling is a safe place where you can record your life in a progressive time span, and then look back at each chapter and reflect.
    3. Writing down your gratitude doesn’t have to be fussy – journaling your gratitude can be simply jotting down three bullet points that happened to you today. It can start with something as seemingly small as “I am grateful that the barista at Starbucks smiled at me and gave me the perfect cup of coffee.”
    4. The 4 R’s of reflective journaling – Reflective journaling is a sacred space to record your thoughts. It is also an opportunity for you to relax, release, reflect and renew. Reflective journaling can help you recharge from stressors with a grateful attitude towards life.

    In this Thanksgiving month, when you convene with your families and friends to share your thanks for life and each other, one soothing ritual you may want to incorporate into your daily routine is quiet time to reflect on the blessings of the day. By writing down three things that lifted your spirits and gave you hope, you foster a perspective of savoring the present moment.  

    Being open to joy and taking the time to appreciate the tiny miracles that happen throughout your day, you can not only boost your mood, but lower your stress levels. Effective stress management can helps reduce inflammation in your body and actually protects against chronic disease. The opposite of disease is ease. By building on your gratitude, you are also strengthening your emotional and physical resilience. 

    Whether you find yourself appreciating the scent of a magnolia tree or the sun setting over a river, being able to fully drink in the present moment and record these blessings daily, sets your world lens to one of wonder and awe. When in doubt, write it out. You won’t regret it. 

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  • November 24, 2021 8:16 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    In this month of November we are surrounded with reminders of thankfulness and gratitude for what we have. The art of being grateful is a tricky one sometimes, especially in a time in our lives where things have been turned upside down and sideways for many reasons. Everyone’s life looks different from what it once was and yet finding the small, simple things to be grateful for is now more important than ever. Finding more balance and comfort within ourselves will allow us to appreciate others and have gratitude for our journey.  

    What does this have to do with thankfulness and gratitude? Being more connected within allows us to show ourselves gratitude in mind, body and spirit. When you practice creating inner balance, you can go into the community and support your partner, family, friends, and neighbors in amazing ways.

    There are so many ways to show our gratitude to others who support and love us. Many of the simplest things we do from the heart are the most impactful.

    Here are some examples:

    • Writing a note and expressing our emotions to loved ones who have been there for us is a great and simple way to show our gratitude. 
    • Surprising someone with a recipe they love or bringing them flowers just because. 
    • Taking the time to clean up or organize an area of your home that needs a little TLC.    
    • Slowing down and trying something new to recharge your batteries, like feeling gratitude for movement and your breath.
    • Slowing down and singing a song or dancing with your kids. Maybe taking a walk in the crunchy autumn leaves with your canines.

    These five examples of simple things you can do to show gratitude for your loved ones also serves to create balance in the 5 elements: heart, spleen, lung, kidneys, and liver. Just being your beautiful self and showing up and spending time together is a great way to show your gratitude. 

    By doing these types of practices for others, you also create more joy within yourself too. This is how you begin to cultivate a grateful life. By expressing and doing for others without being asked is a way to reduce the stress of the day within your body. Giving of yourself is in essence being grateful for what you have been given and sharing it with your community.

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  • November 24, 2021 8:04 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    I could write a blog post about why gratitude is good for us, but given some recent challenges in my life I thought it would be more interesting (and more honest) to write about why gratitude is sometimes hard. 

    There’s mounting research demonstrating that gratitude will help us to be healthier (1), happier (2), and experience less pain (3).   But reading about why we should be grateful doesn’t necessarily contribute to a felt-sense of gratitude.

    It’s easy to be grateful when things are going our way.  When those we love are well, when we feel strong and healthy, when we take a walk on a lovely day or see a beautiful sunset. It’s a natural and universal reflex to feel and express gratitude.  

    The experience of gratitude comes easily with other positive emotions.  It’s natural to experience gratitude and peace, gratitude and laughter, gratitude and warmth, gratitude and love.  With joy comes gratitude, and the converse also seems to be true.  

    What happens when things are falling apart, as they do for all of us sometimes?  Is it possible to feel gratitude and fear, gratitude and anger, gratitude and sadness, gratitude and envy, gratitude and frustration?  Isn’t that the point? To be able to soften negative emotions by calling upon our feelings of gratitude?

    Nearly all wisdom traditions, spiritual teachings, mindfulness training and modern psychology emphasize the value of feeling and expressing gratitude. I understand that in cultivating a sincere feeling of gratitude, peace of mind will follow.  But it’s not always easy to evoke gratitude at will, especially if you are going through a hard time.  

    I have had an unstructured gratitude practice over the years. Not consistent and not always successful.  As I have struggled accessing gratitude while experiencing negative emotions, I remind myself that offering thanks, gratitude or kindness to another person can produce nearly the same results.  It feels good to do something kind for someone else.  It soothes the recipient and has the lovely side effect of offering comfort to me as well.

    When I am struggling or someone I care for is suffering, I often call upon the old standby cliche that “it could always be worse.” This evokes a sense of pseudo-gratitude, which is better than no gratitude at all I suppose.  What works even better is first to remember that nothing lasts forever, and then to seek to offer kindness. It doesn’t even need to be directed at someone involved in a hard situation, it could be a completely unrelated act of thanks.  It will most certainly make you feel better.  Then gratitude becomes much easier to find.

    Brother David Steindl-Rast is a Benedictine Monk, PhD and author who is well known for building bridges between religious traditions.  His words beautifully summarize how gratitude can inform our lives.

    “It is not happiness that makes us grateful, it is gratefulness that makes us happy. Every moment is a gift.”

    1.  https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Femo0000472

    2.  https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier

    3. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/17439760.2019.1627397

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  • November 17, 2021 8:44 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    Did you know November is National Gratitude month? It makes sense right? Thanksgiving dinner for many of us is a tradition of friends and family gathering around the table sharing what we are thankful for.  In November we hear more about gratitude in general.  It's everywhere. We see the word "grateful"  in every home decor section, on fireplace mantles, blog posts, social media, commercials, magazines, schools, work places, and more.  But what does it mean to have gratitude?

    According to 2003 research by Michael McCullough and Robert Emmons gratitude is a practice of appreciating something positive in our lives that comes from somewhere other than ourselves.  Research shows that this simple practice is powerful.  So we should not wait for the month of November to start.

    Research also shows that offering gratitude on a daily basis benefits people in three primary ways: physical, emotional and social.  Some of the benefits include improved blood pressure and immune function, improved quality of sleep, improved mood, decreased stress levels, improved optimism, more joy and less loneliness, and more compassion towards others. 

    Practicing gratitude helps us to change our perspective on our current situation (especially if we are focused on negatives and stressors) to a more positive outlook and recognize how we are already being supported.  Below are two easy ways to practice gratitude. 

    1. GRATITUDE JOURNAL:  A daily gratitude journal can help rewire our brains towards positivity and highlight what is working in our lives versus what is not working.  This practice helps ground us each day and reminds us of our blessings, the simple things we take for granted, and allows us to express appreciation for them. It can be as simple as saying "I'm grateful for the roof over my head," or "I'm grateful to be born in the USA," or " I'm grateful for the kind cashier at the store today."   

    2. Create "A GET TO DO LIST" or "A GRATEFUL LIST." Gratefulness and gratitude are a bit different.  Being grateful is recognizing the opportunity in the moment, instead of practicing gratitude at a later moment. Being grateful is saying "I get to" instead of "I have to."  This can work even if you are grumpy about having to do something.  This may sound counter intuitive, but begin by taking a few deep breaths to ground, focus and calm yourself.  Then try saying " I get to" instead of "I have to."  For example, imagine you are upset because you are required to attend to a meeting you do not have time for.  Instead of saying "I have to go to another useless meeting today,"  try saying "I get to go to a meeting and connect with others and learn something new."  Or instead of saying "I have to wash all these clothes this week," try saying "I get to wash my clothes each week in a first world, modern day washing machine. I am so lucky."  Or how about instead of "I have to drive my child to school everyday," try saying "I get to drive my child to school everyday and have the opportunity to bond with him/her. I get to spend this quality time with my child every morning." 

    Simply reframing a situation and shifting the wording can help change what may first seem like an inconvenience to something beneficial that brings you or someone else joy.  When doing these daily practices try to be as specific as you can with your wording. Soon practicing gratitude will be easy and part of your everyday, not just a Thanksgiving day ritual.

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  • November 10, 2021 7:24 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    The Thanksgiving season is upon us.  At this time of year, it's customary to consider what we're thankful for and share this with others just before partaking in a marvelous meal.  For most of us, this is a worthwhile exercise that provides us an opportunity to mindfully notice the good in our lives.  We may experience a mental and emotional shift, a boost of mood and energy that stays with us until we get caught up again in the challenges of life.  I'd like to offer some information with the hope of encouraging and empowering you so that you can have this uplifting experience beyond Thanksgiving Day.  This starts with understanding the power of embracing gratitude.  

    Did you know that although used interchangeably, there is actually a difference between thankfulness and gratitude?  Thankfulness refers to an expression or feeling of appreciation for something received or done.  For example, I might be thankful that my co-worker helped me complete a project or that the barista at my favorite coffee shop threw in an extra shot of espresso at no extra charge.  In response, I might say, “thank you” to let the other person know I noticed and appreciated what they did.  Being thankful is often prompted by something done externally for us by someone else.  Gratitude does not require a precipitating event to be done by someone else.  Gratitude is an internal experience, initiated within us.  It's intentionally noticing what we already have and what is good in our lives, regardless of what is done by others and what we do not have.  

    Sounds good right?  Maybe to some of you.  Others might be thinking, “you don’t understand my life.  Being grateful is really hard right now. Don’t you see all that is going on in the world?”  To all of you I say, “I get it.”  When we are in the middle of something really hard, or sometimes multiple experiences that are really hard, it can be difficult to practice gratitude.  However, I would offer that it is in those times that it's all the more important to practice this intention.  Why?  Because our brains tend to focus on what elicits the most intense emotion or feeling at the time.  Setting an intention of gratitude helps us to train and focus our brains to mindfully notice what is good even when everything is not good, which allows us to have a more complete experience.  Embracing gratitude doesn't mean denying the difficult or painful experiences you've had.  It doesn't mean ignoring things happening in the world that aren't good.  It means that you can make room to recognize and include what is good, even in the midst of difficulty and pain.  

    Practicing gratitude is an intentional practice that can help to elicit a positive mindset and feelings, which can boost mood and energy.  While this practice may be challenging at times, intentionally embracing gratitude regularly is sure to have positive effects that can be seen throughout every area of our lives.  Starting this practice may seem overwhelming, but remember that every great work starts with one small step.  Here are some steps you can take to integrate gratitude practices into your life:

    1. Keep a gratitude journal (written, audio or video).  Journaling is a well-known mindfulness practice.  A gratitude journal is a key investment into your gratitude bank.  Not only will it help you identify positive and good in your life in the present moment, but you can also go back and read, listen to or watch past entries in difficult times to spark inspiration.

    2. Notice and express appreciation for yourself.  We often spend energy focusing on what we didn't do and don't have.  Take some time to notice and express appreciation for you, just as you are.  For example, thank yourself for working out, whether it was for 15 minutes or 30.  Notice that you're great at your job.  Appreciate your good work as a parent.  

    3. Express gratitude to or for someone else.  Noticing and expressing appreciation for yourself can often spark a chain reaction and inspiration to start doing the same in your relationships with others.  Tell your partner that you appreciate them and you're glad they are in your life.  Let your colleague know you admire their work. Tell your child you're proud of them.  If you're struggling with this, try identifying how you would want others to express gratitude to you.  What would you want them to notice, say, or do?  Then, do that for them.

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  • November 03, 2021 11:42 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    I must confess I had to extend my deadline for this post submission a week because I decided to rewrite my original blog.  I told Dr. Lola Capps that it was too heavy.  She laughed and said “that makes me want to read more.”  Thanks to Lola, please be aware that this is somewhat heavy.  May you find the space to digest it slowly.

    In general, I would rate myself pretty high on the gratitude scale (if there is such a thing). LOL.

    Growing up in a poor and tumultuous home, it was easy for me to find gratitude in simple things like a roof over my head, a warm bed at night, and a well-fed tummy.  These days I have gratitude fro my well-coordinated hands and fingers that serve my craft as a dentist and the opportunity to create a peaceful space for my team and my patients.

    In the past couple years, I've learned another layer of gratitude.  I'm not only grateful while going through suffering but also grateful for my suffering.  I felt like I was on a roller coaster physically, financially and mentally while going through a difficult divorce.  I was not only dealing with my own suffering by breaking away from twenty-two years of marriage, gut also witnessing to boys' pain.  The only thing I could do was learn to sit with them in their pain.  It was hard to watch them lose their innocence so early.  It was hard to feel like I'd failed my boys and ruined the ideal perfect family image.  It was hard juggling single parenting with my kids' activities, child care in the virtual schooling world, managing my small business, and being there for my team members and my patients.  

    Yet, in the midst of that chaotic, messy and painful time, I finally understood and acknowledged my pain.  I refused to paint a perfect rainbow without rain.  I refused to put a bandage over the wound that never heals if proper cleansing doesn’t take place.  I told my patients all the time that putting a filling over a cavity without cleaning it properly leads to a root canal or worse, losing a tooth.  As a human being who is motivated by pain, I embraced my pain, and found the courage to walk in the rain.  

    In the rain, I finally looked around and saw that there were others on the journey too.  Some were walking right beside me, extending their umbrellas.  Sometimes I extended my umbrella when my arms were not too tired to hold it.  Sometimes my fellow sojourners and I witnessed a beautiful rainbow in the sky.  Sometimes, the rain kept coming hard for days and my only choice was to accept being wet and perhaps even dance in the rain.

    It is in the rain that I confidently know that I'm God’s beloved.

    As much as I still resist suffering, I'm grateful for the lessons of resilience, courage, vulnerability, humility, and the quiet depth of compassion for self and others.  

    My Del Ray friends, I see you and I see your sufferings too.  May we continue to meet each other in the space of  kindness and acceptance.  I am not perfect.  We are not perfect.  But I am good and you are good too!

    I leave you with these beautiful messages from my faith:

    “You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule."

    “You’re blessed when you feel you’ve lost what's most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you."

    “You’re blessed when you’re content with who you are—no more, no less. That’s the moment you find yourself a proud owner of everything that can’t be bought."

    "You’re blessed when you’ve worked up a good appetite for God. He’s food and drink in the best meal you’ll ever eat."

    “You’re blessed when you care. At the moment of being ‘care-full’ you find yourself cared for."

    “You’re blessed when you get your inside world—your mind and heart—put right. Then you can see God in the outside world."

    “You’re blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That’s when you discover who you really are and your place in God’s family."

    “You’re blessed when your commitment to God provokes persecution. The persecution drives you even deeper into God’s kingdom."

    The Del Ray Smiles family are grateful for each and everyone of you!

    Namaste from the depth of my heart,

    Julie Tran

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  • October 27, 2021 11:24 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    The air is cooler, the leaves are turning beautiful shades of gold and red, and pumpkins are everywhere. But as we notice these changes around us, we may also notice some uncomfortable feelings tugging at us from within, preventing us from being fully present. Sometimes with a change in seasons, we can have a real shift in our emotions and become more aware of feelings of loss that were previously just below the surface. During the last 19 months, some of us have unfortunately experienced the loss of someone dear to us. Have we really addressed these losses and tended to our grief?  When we avoid our grief, it finds its way into our lives in unpredictable ways. Getting stuck in pain, guilt, and anxiety related to loss causes suffering. However, when we find a way to HONOR our loss, we open the door to the healing process, begin to let go of suffering, and increase joy and meaning in our present day lives. We begin to move THROUGH our grief. 


    Grief is an extremely personal and unique process that should never be held to a timeline. Yet, it's all too common to pressure ourselves or others may pressure us to “get over” loss or “move on.” Grief, however, is not something to “get over,” but something to MOVE THROUGH. When you are ready, in your own time, finding ways to honor your loved one, can help you move through the healing process, with less suffering, and strengthen your heart connection to your loved one.  Sometimes, we unknowingly hang onto pain, guilt, or anxiety to stay connected to these special people. Exploring ways to uniquely HONOR them can begin to connect us in a new way with deep compassion and tenderness. HONORING them can be a public or private activity. When we intentionally choose to HONOR our loved one, we are engaging in our own unique healing journey, tending to our grief, and letting go of suffering.


    • Begin a unique daily ritual that says “I Love You” to this person, especially if you didn’t get a chance to before they died. Get creative here! Blow a kiss each morning getting out of bed.

    • Change something about your lives for the better, something that connects you to them. Example:  Dad loved his daily walk, so incorporate one in your day to connect with him and honor him.

    • Continue or start a new tradition in someone’s honor. Example: Gather family for a special activity on Mom’s birthday to honor her.

    • Dedicate yourself to a cause that connects you to your loved one. Example: Volunteer to walk a shelter dog once a week to honor that friend who loved her furry companions.

    • Organize a celebration of life or memorial gathering, virtual or in person. Each step in the planning process will connect you to your loved one.

    • Make a video or photo album or playlist documenting you loved one's life.

    • Explore a loved one's family tree with online tools.

    • Write a letter, poem, or song for your loved one.  Find a special place to keep it and re-read it, sing it, or share it as needed! 

    • Plant a tree that will grow with each passing year or dedicate a park bench in their honor. Make a marker or sign and place nearby. Visit often!

    • Enjoy a favorite food or recipe that your loved one enjoyed. Perhaps make it a regular occurrence and invite people to share in the experience.


    These are just some examples of ways we can HONOR loved ones. The possibilities are endless! Consider getting family involved, including the kids. Spending time engaging, planning and thinking about these activities connects us to our loved ones who have died. This enables us to remember them with more love and more joy. Our deep love and our desire to connect to those we have lost continues for our lifetime and beyond. By HONORING them, we help ourselves move THROUGH our feelings of grief, sadness, and loss and can begin to let go of our suffering. 

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  • October 20, 2021 8:13 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    As I prepared to hike the Grand Canyon from rim to rim -- an exciting but strenuous undertaking of 25 miles -- I remember our guide emphasizing the importance of minimizing the weight of our backpack. He said every “ounce” matters when you are rapidly ascending 6,000 feet because extra weight increases physical and emotional strain and leads to a less enjoyable experience.

    As I review the contents of my already full backpack, my questions are: “What do I want to let go of? How can I make my journey easier and more enjoyable?”

    The same questions apply to our life experiences. What are you are carrying around each day that's making your journey more difficult than it needs to be? As a mind-body therapist my primary goal is to help people live with more ease. We often walk through life holding onto emotions, beliefs or behaviors that don't serve our highest good or prevent us from reaching optimal levels of well-being. We are often unaware of these "items” we are carrying in our "backpack" or how the weight of the pack is impacting our physical, emotional and spiritual health. Or we might be aware of those "items" and choose to carry them (i.e. holding a grudge) or we are aware and want to release them but don't know how.

    The first step in the process of letting go is practicing mindfulness to become aware of what you are feeling, thinking and sensing in your body. Your body is an intuitive feedback system. Am I feeling ease, lightness, openness, expansion or calm in my body? Or am I feeling restricted, tight, closed in or apprehensive in my body? Typically, when an emotion is stuck in your body from a past experience you'll sense that somewhere in your body and may still be thinking things like, “I can’t believe this person would do that to me!" or "I have the right to stay angry" or "I'll will never get over this.”

    After identifying an “item” to remove from your "backpack" or one you don't want to put in your backpack in the first place (real time emotion), follow these steps of letting go through action or journaling:

    • Notice what you want to release. Example:I feel anger (emotion) and tightness in my stomach (sensation) when I think about my ex-boyfriend cheating on me (fact). He made me look like a fool (belief) and he made me feel I was not good enough (belief) .

    • Acknowledge and feel the emotion fully. Release the attachments and stories and name the emotion directly. Example: I feel angry, I feel hurt, I feel sad that he cheated on me.

    • Soothe the emotion and breathe through it, softening and opening. Consider placing a hand over an area of your body where you feel the emotion or over your heart in a warm and compassionate way. Do this for several minutes until you feel the emotion begin to subside.

    • Choose your path forward. Say out loud or write, “I am choosing to release this anger because ….”

    • Reflect with gratitude. Take a moment to be proud of yourself for honoring your emotions and taking care of yourself and for the life experience which is allowing you to grow and deepen your relationship with yourself.

    The reality is that uncomfortable or painful experiences do happen in our lives, some of which are not our fault or and over which we do not have control. However, our power lies in the way in which we respond to such experiences. One of the best possible things you can do for your mental health is to learn how to tolerate and move through difficult emotions without attachments and stories. Attachments and stories are like "items" you don't need in your backpack and your backpack can't get too heavy if you are not shoving things into it. Become aware of your attachments and stories to avoid carrying them unnecessarily.

    At this time emotional health is more critical than ever. It's to our benefit to let go of small daily annoyances and to release longer standing emotion. Freeing yourself from attachment and stories will positively impact your overall health and leave more room for joy, growth and love.

    As you move forward with practicing self-care, keep these questions in mind: “What do I choose to let go of?" or “What do I want to let go of?” Your spirit will appreciate your attention to these matters. The more you practice and experience the rewards, the more skilled you will become at letting go.

    *Please note: emotions tied to traumatic incidents may be difficult to release and/or require specific training in distress tolerance to assist you with processing them safely. A trauma informed mental health therapist can help you with this process.

     Del Ray Psych & Wellness is comprised of a vibrant and energetic group of clinical psychologists, therapists, and wellness professionals that are passionate about guiding adults on their personal journeys of growth and transformation. They believe that each individual has the capacity to reach personal fulfillment, authenticity, and optimal well-being, and that a holistic approach of addressing the mind, body, and spirit is essential for growth, healing, and transformation.  Learn more at delraypsych.com.

  • October 13, 2021 10:03 AM | Pat Miller (Administrator)

    Although you may take it for granted, your skin is your largest organ. Your skin is the first line of defense and serves as a protective shield from the sun, germs, pollution and more. Get serious about treating it with some respect.

    • Keep your skin clean. Your skin will absorb a percentage of what comes in contact with it such as gasoline, paint, makeup or other items. The absorption process takes a few seconds and within five minutes your blood will deliver that substance to every organ in your body. It’s important to wash and clean your skin. Always avoid contact with harmful materials.

    • Use products that contain safe ingredients. Just because an item is sold in a store doesn’t mean it won’t cause you harm. Some of the chemicals in beauty products are linked to cancer. If you don’t know what the ingredients are, do research, look them up and learn more about what you are placing on your skin.

    • Drink water. Your body is 60% water. Your skin needs water to stay healthy.

    • Eat better. You can improve the foods you consume. Increase fruits and veggies and lower or remove processed foods as much as you can. You are what you eat.

    • Increase your exercise. Remember you were made to move. With modern conveniences, your body may not be challenged as much as it needs. Find ways to get moving and increase your circulation and heart rate.

    Your skin can change with your environment and you play a role

    People living in cold climates during the winter are usually low in Vitamin D. People in sunny, warmer climates tend to have more sun damage. People in large urban areas are inhaling and absorbing more toxins from air pollution.

    • Find out from your doctor if you are deficient in any vitamins/minerals and what you need to add to your diet to improve your overall health.

    • Evaluate where you live and take steps to improve your environment locally. Each person can make a difference because there are over 7.9 billion humans on the planet. Keep that in mind when you leave your car idling, waste food or purchase things you don’t need. You can contribute to the planet’s health.

    • Learn to be more eco-conscious with green groups

    • You have the power to stop buying plastic, harmful chemicals, wasteful cars or oversized homes.

    Your health and the health of the planet can be overwhelming and it’s never too late to start acting. Each day is an opportunity to walk away from bad habits and wastefulness and to make wiser choices. Embrace simplicity and remember what truly matters in life.

    Ideas and information

    • Green Tips - “One thing you can do today” on the Truly-Life social media feeds:
      Instagram @trulylife2008
      Facebook @TrulyLife.EcoGifts
      Twitter @trulylife
    • Healthy Skin Care: Truly-Life.com

     Truly-Life is the ultimate urban garden with loofahs, herbs, and flowers grown in Del Ray and used in eco-friendly skin care products.  Learn more and shop online at truly-life.com.

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